Let it go or apologize?
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Let it go or apologize?
| Mon, 06-19-2006 - 8:11pm |
Deleted in case he lurks around here. Thanks all for your advice!
Edited 6/22/2006 7:07 pm ET by senna2006
| Mon, 06-19-2006 - 8:11pm |
That's a tough one. If you said some things you regret, then apologizing is the right thing to do. But on the other hand, he could be in the process of moving on, and hearing from you would really set him back in his healing process, and I think that would be the greater wrong.
So, I would not write to him at this point, but if you haven't heard from him in a few more months, then you could write and apologize.
Sheri
Do you think that "why" after three months even matters? I don't mean this in an argumentative sense... but if there has not been communication in three months or so, maybe its best just to let it go.
Now, I would like to know "why" as to "why" someone totally changed after three weeks... and now won't even communicate with me.
But three months? I just don't know.
Jim
I can understand why you want to do this, but I don't know if an email will do it, I mean, that was the vehicle that kind of drove a wedge between you to begin with, isn't it?