Letting go

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Registered: 04-05-2007
Letting go
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Tue, 04-10-2007 - 10:56pm
I am letting him go. He's poisoning my life and my heart. He plays games and thinks that's the way to go. Whether he's trying to get back at me or just being a jerk, he's poisoning me emotionally and I can't handle it. This is one of the hardest things for me right now because he loves my daughter and she loves him. Over easter weekend, all she did was ask about him and all I could do was say he'll be by to see you. He came by eventually, but when he left she cried. It breaks my heart. I know it's not right to stick in this "relationship" anymore. I have started letting go and not caring. But it hurts so much because my little girl sees him as her dad. Even though she spends time with her real dad. How can I do this? Does anyone have any ideas of how I can tell her he will not be in her life anymore? Can anyone tell me how I can handle this? Please help. I'm torn.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: mom_angelface
Wed, 04-11-2007 - 1:13am

Welcome to the board mom_angelface,


Tell her in simple terms what's happened.