List Time ....

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List Time ....
Tue, 05-23-2006 - 9:06pm

We're all hurting in one way or another. Some of us are going over in our heads all the wonderful things about our relationship and how much we loved/him or her and how nice it would be to have the good times back ... even if they weren't really that good. So how about focussing on some of the negative aspects of the relationship to help us get over our sadness?

I propose we each list five things about our exes that we couldn't stand and won't miss. I'll go first:

1. He doesn't celebrate Valentine's Day because he doesn't want someone telling him when to buy his girlfriend a gift. But he said I could get him something if I wanted to. Isn't he generous?

2. He was emotionally distant about 50% of the time we were together.

3. He would seldom play with me. When I tried to be goofy, silly and playful with him, I usually got a stone-cold response.

4. He didn't have very much sexual interest in me. In the last two months we were together we only had sex four or five times.

5. We seldom had any serious discussions. Everything was kept at a very superficial chatty level.

Now it's your turn. List five things about your ex you won't miss ...

Edited 5/23/2006 11:38 pm ET by iamdelightful




Edited 5/24/2006 2:00 am ET by iamdelightful