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| Sun, 04-23-2006 - 8:37pm |
It feels like getting over someone is a little like getting beyond an addiction, so there should be a 12 step program or something for people who can't move on and get over it. I have to work with the man I'm in love with who's wife moved back into his home. He says she moved back in literally while he was at work...came home to find her there. She won't leave. He doesnt want to leave his house. I dont have time for this drama, but how do I get over this. I have to see him at work, there is no avoiding it. Any input would be appreciated.
Thank you
Carolyn

Carrie
guys using diff kinda excuses...just to fool us. in your situation if he doesnt have feeling to his wife at all. no matter what he will find away for her to leave the house..i'm assuming he still have feeling for her so its hard for him to make her go away. dont be fool with this excuses.. he probably say this for you to stay!
well why dont your try telling him that you want to go to his house and let him introduce you to his wife. let see from there...if ever he takes you to his house and did this...well this guy really loves you. if not!!! his a jerk and you need to get out of that stupid relationship. you dont deserved him.. his just gonna mess up your mind and you dont need this kinda drama.
The pro and con list is a good idea...I started one oncw and threw it away because it seemed harsh, but I think I will try again. Its been five days since I've seen him and four days since we've spoken. Today he called off work sick anf I didn't call to make sure he was okay. Major hurdle for me, although it may not seem like alot to someone else. Quitting my job is not an option...I love my job and almost everyone that works at my hospital...so I'm not going anywhere. I will find a way to deal with it. Thanks for the words of advice...it helps to be able to vent and talk here.
Carolyn