lost, and dont know what to do?
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lost, and dont know what to do?
| Wed, 09-21-2005 - 12:52pm |
My boyfriend and I recently broke up (3 days ago). We have been doing the long distance thing and recently he moved to a new city to start a job. It is his first time away from his family and his friends. We have been doing the ldr thing our entire relationship (nearly a year) and the distance has never been easy but also has never gotten us close to break up. This last weekend he told me that he wasnt happy. He wanted to figure out his life. He thinks the distance is too difficult. He has to drive thru at least an hour of city traffic before he gets on the road to drive an additional 3 hours to see me. I drive to see him also but he just hates driving so it is a little bit different. In addition, I have not been the easies person to date since the move to the new city. I have been nervous about his new friends of which i don't know. And I constantly worry about him wanting a new gf, to go along with his new life. I dont feel like it should be over. I am in extreme denial. He keeps saying that he doesnt know what the future holds for us and he misses me. I had plans to move down there in about 9 months, should i still plan on that and maybe things will work if we are in the same place. or should i just give him his space and let him figure out if we should be together? I feel so lost. I never thought that we would not be together. I don't want him to think that i don't care. We have been emailing but i have not replied to his last email... (from yesterday) do i hope that he will realize what he is missing? HELP!
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| Wed, 09-21-2005 - 1:27pm |
Time heals so it's early. Are you moving there to be with him or for a new career opportunity?
