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Lost a friend
| Thu, 08-12-2004 - 11:41am |
I was single for a couple of years after a nasty breakup but have always had a great crowd of friends so haven't actually felt the need for a realtionship. I have a friend, lets call him Matt, who i've known for about 10 yrs. Over the last few yrs we would probably see each other every couple of months for a good catch up. A couple of months ago after a great night out with Matt and a couple of drinks we ended up kissing, totally unexpectedly. After that we did actually start going out together but he was very full on, talking about moving intogether and maybe getting married one day. He was also keen for me to meet his parents and his friends. We saw each other nearly every night and it was a real whirlwind romance. I was a bit concerned as he hadn't that long come out of a long term relationship but he reasurred me that he really did like me and as i had known him for so long i did totally trust him. Then a month later he sent me a text msg saying he didn't want to go out with me anymore as he just wanted to stay friends and he always seen me as one of his best friends. I didn't see it coming and was quite upset that he could tell me that by text!! About a week later i did send him a msg to say that as we had been friends for a long time and had shared a lot of history, i would like to continue being his friend and could we talk sometime. He never bothered to reply. i now feel so stupid for getting involved with him, and absolutely gutted that he should turn out like that. Sorry for a bit of a long winded post but needed to sound off. I'm not broken hearted as we hadn't been seeing each other that long but feel so sad to have lost someone i consided a good friend.
Take care everyone xxxx
Take care everyone xxxx

I am so sorry for you. I hope things get better with you and your friend!
Hugs, Katriella
Thats really nice of you. I'm hoping that things will blow over soon and we get to be friends again!!
xxxxx