Ok I have written my story a few times but it basically goes like this. My BF and I of 4.5 years have been having problems recently becuase things were getting too routine for us and we got in a rut. We are only 23. We broke up but never stopped having contact because he said he wanted to try to make it work he just needed space.
After a few weeks of limited contact we started hanging out again and one night we got to talking. I asked him what was going on between us and he said that he has been feeling alot better about things lately. He said that he is not 100% but he considers me to be his girlfriend and that he does not want to see other people or anything like that. I took that as we were back together. Was I wrong? Is that totally off?
Well now its been a few weeks since then and everything has been very good and we are doing things like a couple would. TO make a long story short I was talking to him earlier and he made a comment jokingly like we always do and said "just break up with me then" and then he stopped and said "well wait we are already broken up so i guess u cant do that". I was like "WHAT? I didnt think we were still broken up". He got quiet and said that we never said things were back to that. He had to go so we didnt finish the convo and it got really awkward. I am so confused not to mention hurt as hell. I mean we have slept together a few times and everything and now to think that he thought this whole time we were broken up I feel devastated. Does anyone have any insight? Was I totally wrong to think we were back together? Please help. I feel like we are back at square one again.