Making the 'BIG' decision :(

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Registered: 03-01-2008
Making the 'BIG' decision :(
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Sat, 03-01-2008 - 6:13pm

I will try to be brief here but my heart is breaking in two as I type and not sure I can keep it short


For all our problems that my BF and I have had up until now I have had complete faith in him and us, until now.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 03-01-2008 - 9:21pm

Welcome to the board funkyanimal,


Since he's recognized there is a problem and thinks he knows what the problem is, then it's time for him to take the next step and get professional help.

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Registered: 03-01-2008
Sun, 03-02-2008 - 7:31am

He had some professional help last year but didn't finish it. It never really addressed his feelings of inadequacy though in my opinion.


We talked about him starting again but he was meant to call the guy wed/thurs/fri/ .......... Hmmm


I have stood by him in the past because although I know that I can not fix him I can support him through him fixing himself, but I'm not sure I can this time. It's a wait and see time.


It's mothers day and I never got an invite, even though I have spent more time with his mother in the last year than my own. I'm trying not to read into this but it's hard not to considering everything.......


So sad x x x