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| Wed, 02-13-2008 - 2:22pm |
We broke up about 2 years ago. Her idea. No contact except for birthday cards. About one month ago she calls me. She tells me she is in a LDR with an older man 13 years her senior. She goes on to say it has been good for her, he treats her like a queen and absolutely adores her. He's got a great job and she could probably marry him if she so chose. Here's the confusion, she tells me there is no sexual chemistry. She said I was the love of her life and she would like to see me. The purpose would be to rekindle what we had. I told her I'm not going to play second fiddle but she still wants to get together.
Any insight ladies?

are you interested? why did you break up in the first place? Remember there are reasons you broke up and those reasons may not be gone...
but then again, sometimes we get out in the real world and realize we had something great and blew it. If that is what she is realizing, then
Gut-reaction:
Welcome to the board bigcat22,
She sees herself marrying him but wants sex with you.
I don't understand when people need this whole "seeing each other to close the door on the past."
Hey bigcat,
Good advice on EXACTLY your situation from my "brother-in-arms" Doc Love