Maybe we just need time apart
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Maybe we just need time apart
| Thu, 08-19-2004 - 5:10pm |
My ex and i were together for 3 years we just parted this year we have been apart for two mos. Before the breakup the relationship began going sour. He begin cheating and once cheating arises trust leaves. This relationship was heaven on earth until the last 3 mos then it turned into pure hell! A pregnancy occured and so did a miscarriage. Respect left and it was just an unhealthy, stressful situation. We recently spoke over the last week we had 2 conversations that lasted about 8 hrs total(too much damn time w/out a moment of silence. He began apologizing saying he's still in love w/me and reflecting back on the good times we shared for so long. We are all human and we make mistakes so i dont judge people. I also began thinking back and before all the dram it was great. Once the chaotic atmosphere erupted we forgot how good we were together. I was thinking that time apart may be what we need. I am 22 and I still have goals I plan on achieving. He has some maturing to do and if that happens there is no stopping us because we are good together. So please hep me by answering these questions:
Once trust and respect leave a situation, can they come back?
If he cheated with his ex, what are the odds of him doing it again?
If you think im running into the fire HELLLLLLLLLLLLLP!
Once trust and respect leave a situation, can they come back?
If he cheated with his ex, what are the odds of him doing it again?
If you think im running into the fire HELLLLLLLLLLLLLP!
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| Thu, 08-19-2004 - 7:26pm |
I have been in your exact situation and thought the same thoughts. From my personal experience, it is not worth trying again. I tried again, but the pure love that we once had was gone. How could it stay the same? He had shared it with someone else and we had too much tension between us. Trying again just made it all worse. I wanted to go back to the way things used to be. But I realized that it was in the past and it was time for me to move on to my present and think about a future. Also, you can forgive cheating... but you will never forget it. I wish you the best of luck in whatever you may choose to do.
