Met with ex, again

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Met with ex, again
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Sun, 06-25-2006 - 4:22am

I had made a pact with a friend last night not to have any contact with Tony for at least a week.

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Sun, 06-25-2006 - 1:21pm

Gosh - in a way that's great that you guys can talk about everything, but it's got to hurt so bad. Do you have the story of what happened wiht you guys posted? Can you post the link? I'd love to read the whole story....

thanks,
dremer

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Registered: 06-22-2005
Sun, 06-25-2006 - 9:40pm

Wow, what a meeting! It sounds like it was amazing, and frightening, and theraputic, and..well...everything. It doesn't sound as though you are confused about anything, or hopeful for anything that is unreasonable. It sounds like this was excellent for both of you but I would have been pretty emotional afterwords. It sounds like it was a great release for you and that you both got something great out bumping into eachother. I don't know what I would do if I ran into my ex right now.

thank you for letting us know how it went...let us know how you feel tomorrow!

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Tue, 06-27-2006 - 4:20pm

It hurt that night, because I asked him not to call me.

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Tue, 06-27-2006 - 4:45pm
I'm kinda lost. If you guys had a good relationship and he doesn't want to be married, you're not sure that's what you want either, then why did you break-up? Even the ending sounds nice. It doesn't sound like it's the end of you two. Why did you walk away from "the best relationship you ever had"?
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Registered: 06-22-2006
Tue, 06-27-2006 - 5:33pm

Why indeed is the question.

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Tue, 06-27-2006 - 6:43pm
I didn't think that was the last of it. He sounds like he cares about you as much as you do about him. Make sure you established what he's feelings are concerning you before you proceed. Last time I was on this board, I got blasted for my opinion. Give it your best shot. If it doesn't work, you already have lots of mental hugs. Good Luck!