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| Sun, 12-31-2006 - 12:56am |
So my X and I broke up 2 months ago. He walked out on myself and our 2 kids. We have continued having sex. About 5 times. Things with us have been off and on. One day we are fighting and the next we are like best friends. Well the other day he came over and asked me were I was going to move. I want to move far away from here as possible. I told him I didn't know. He says he is thinking about moving to chicago. I say "What, are you and your girlfriend gonna move there?" He says" It's not even like that." So I say "Oh, then your roommate gonna move in with you?" He says "Did I say anyone was going go with me?" And then he says " You should move with me." I didn't say anything. He then starts asking our 4 year old if he wants to go to Chicago sometime and go to the zoo. X says "mommy can come too." Then he asks me if I would like to go with him for a weekend. I ask who would go and he says us and the kids. So I am so confused about this.
The next day he takes the kids for a few hours and I go to pick them up. We start talking and I mumbled under my breathe how I want a new boyfriend. He asks me why. I say b/c I am sick of being so lonely when the kids go to be. He tells me I don't need a boyfriend and that he will come hang out with me. Well he didn't. He was to busy with his girfriend. And new years eve he said he will come over and we can hang out. Bet that don't happen.
So my question is... Why is he doing this. In a few months he will be getting a trust fund and have a lot of money. So I know that is when he will be moving and has told me he will finance me to move wherever I want to go. Obviously with him. We were togethr for 6 years and I do love him so much still. What is he telling me?????

We get what we put up with.
Susan
"Success is building a foundation wit
While I'm not quite as um, upset, as the previous poster, I will say that the sex needs to stop.