mixed thoughts wht does this mean?
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mixed thoughts wht does this mean?
| Sun, 02-25-2007 - 8:13pm |
my ex and i have been broken up almost a month now- next month (reltionship lasted almost three years.)...he called me sometime this month to "see how i was doing".we talked & the conversation went well. then a few days later i went out i ended up seeing him.......i almost melt because this is like the first time i'm seeing him he gave me a hail not by mouth but by actions.what i want to know is he called me or whats not does this mean he still has some kind of feelings? i'm starting to think maybe we will get back together buti dont think we will:-( as the famous saying goes "whats in the past stays in the past".after all he is my first.....and my first love

Hi cuteness,
I don't understand what this means - "he gave me a hail not by mouth but by actions"
If he called to check on you, it could mean a lot of different things, he's concerned about you, he wanted to check on you so he doesn't feel like the bad guy, he wants to be friends, he was feeling down, missing you, or whatever and decided to see how you were to help him put things in perspective for himself.
If he's not say "I want to get back together with you" very directly, don't read anything into seeing him or hearing from you.
Cuteness-
As easy as it is to look into the meaning of what our ex's do it's best not to.
My ex and I have been broken up for 2 mths now and he still calls to check on me. At first I felt the same way you do hoping that he just needed time and we'd work it out and he'd come crawling back groveling. He didn't, hasn't and won't!
I just think that he wants to make sure that I'm alright b/c he feels bad and want's me not to hate him for making me cry my eyes out for days straight. I try to be civil and in the beginning I even tried to be overly nice so that he could see how "happy" I was without him. That lasted about 2 wks and I just couldn't do it anymore but I've not crumbled in front of him yet--I think that's key.
I would just go on with your days like you have been. Hang out with your friends and find YOU again. whatever happens happens. If you 2 do get back together just be sure that it's for the right reasons not just b/c one or both of you was lonely.