Moved onto the wrong person!

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Registered: 01-20-2005
Moved onto the wrong person!
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Wed, 05-25-2005 - 8:15pm

I don't know if this is the right board for this question but here it is anyway:

What do you do if you feel you have finally moved on because you have started to really like someone else, but that someone else turns out to be your flatmate (roommate for those of you from US)?

My ex broke up with me a year ago, and it was the worst year of my life. I loved him more than anything, I thought he was "the one". And it took too long to realise that it's over. Even in February this year I was still upset because of him, and he used it. He enjoyed having someone on the side who was so obviously in love with him.

I dated someone else for a while but that didn't make it any better and I had to break it off a month ago. That's when I started feeling much better. Enjoying being single. Enjoying reading books, hanging out with friends, focusing on myself rather than someone else.

And then at my birthday party recently I met this guy who I really liked and who liked me too. I could see myself in a relationship with someone like that. However, this other guy ended up moving into my house! I know this is recipe for a disaster. Plus he has just split up with his girlfriend. On one hand I am glad that my mind is finally occupied with someone else. On the other, I don't want to end up full of regrets again.

The funny thing is that my ex has felt now that I have become indifferent to him. And since that moment he keeps on ringing me, asking me out for dinners, coffees and so on. Men are so funny!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 05-29-2005 - 12:30pm

schnittke....


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Registered: 01-30-2004
Mon, 05-30-2005 - 6:38pm
Congratulations on getting over your ex...because let's face it you have!!!
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