Moving On

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Registered: 07-31-2007
Moving On
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Wed, 08-01-2007 - 1:12pm
I was going to post this yesterday and didn't but now I feel like I really need help!
I have been in a LDR for 1 yr and on and off for the last 3 months.
He had to relocate from FL to NY, so before he left I went to visit in FL. He called every day to tell me how excited he was that I was coming.
We had spent 5 days in FL, had a great time. He called every 30 mins on
his drive to NY (24 hours). Told me, he needed to get settled in and wanted me to visit soon. As soon as he got there, he had to change #'s (different service providers) and didn't bother to call with the new #. When I finally was able to contact him, thats when he started leaving all the I miss you and love you messages.
Then he disappeared again.
I have only called about every 3rd week. I have never felt this bad
ever.I normally have a very bad outlook on relationships but he is the only
one who I feel is really into starting his business and straightening out his life.
I didn't feel like there was someone else.
He FINALLY called me to talk and wanted to tell me, he had met someone else and went on 1 date but he hasnt heard back from her. He is not sure how he feels about her, she asked him out unexpectedly. He cant do the LDR anymore he says it hurts to much when I leave but wants to be friends.
I do appreciate his honesty, but knowing that I am miserable, mopey and crying my eyes out makes me want to hate him.
Of course, I googled her (childish, i know) and he told me she was the President of his Bank, she is a teller!! Why would he lie? Does it matter who/what she does?
He has been gone for 6 weeks and I have been a total mess.
I have always had bad luck in relationships and I truly believed he was honest, sincere and trustworthy. I am so confused!
I just want to start feeling like myself and get back to my life, which is pretty great except for him.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-31-2007
In reply to: lanis2007
Wed, 08-08-2007 - 4:16pm
Susanna, I wish you could move in with me for the next month.
You are truly an awesome person!
Thanks for your kind words~
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Registered: 07-14-2007
In reply to: lanis2007
Wed, 08-08-2007 - 9:07pm
laughs. Maybe I'll take you up on that. I make a mean chocolate chip cookie
- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your

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