Mr NOT Perect

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Registered: 06-05-2006
Mr NOT Perect
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Tue, 06-27-2006 - 2:53pm
I am a kind, gentle, loving person. In fact, I NEVER EVER picked up a hand to my ex or son. Yet she has subverted the legal system against me. The other day, Jill Dhane, an itn'ly reknown psychic called me. She said to me without even knowing any details to give to her: why did I give my ex EVERYTHING? Told her that when in court I couldn't even talk, all I could do was constantly cry. I loved my son and my ex. They both hurt me so very much. But, I didn't want THEM to suffer by taking anything. Gave up my half-millio vndollar house, practically all the money in the bank, etc., etc. I ALWAYS put them in front of myself, and now I have to pay the price because of my lack of selfishness/foolishness. I even lost my job over her. My boss called me one day, and said that he just heard from my wife and all he could say was "don't let the b******s get to you." Soon afterwards, I lost my job. I also had a business that took me 20 yrs to build up, and it took the ex 1 day to destroy it. Yeah, I called her a PIG, because that what she is. If you were to meet her you would thing she is a wonderful person. She is articulate and a great actress. If you lived with her then you would really know the truth. Towards the end of my marriage many red flags went up. An example: laying in bed with her one night the phone rings. It was her girlfriend who nicknamed herself "tammy the PIG." The ex hit the speakerphone and I heard Tammy the PIG asking the ex to go to a singles bar!!! Said to the ex why is Tammy even asking to go to a singles bar, you are married? I had her make a face to me like I was the one who was abnormal. Another thing: the last time the ex called me she said after 2 yrs that she was ready for civilty. I was p****** in my pants that she was finally trying to be decent to me. Yeah, her decency. She told me that if I wanted to see my son I'd have to watch her do another guy and have the option of joining in!!! And, I wasn't drunk or on any type of drugs either. That is what she said to me. Well, I hung up, and then just freaked out. Called her back and said to her that if I had a gun I would probably shoot her. She then had me arrested. What normal person could take that kind of abuse? After several yrs of my marriage I was cleaning out my garage one day. Although I overstepped my boundaries I came across her diary and couldn't resist reading it. The yr that I met her was her ****-fest. Every weekend for a yr she was *******3-4 guys EVERY weekend. No lie. Her last entry in her diary was about me. She said that I was her last chance to have a baby, and wasn't even in love with me. A hard to pill to swallow considering the fact that my former girlfirend used to be a model for Leggs, and my ex couldn't hold a candle to my former girlfirend. As a matter of fact, I appeared on several radio and TV dating shows. I WAS a real catch and had many women chasing after me. However, the majority of my relationships with other women lasted several yrs. I wasn't out to put notches on my belt. Much more to this story, but PLEASE beleive me .. I only tell the TRUTH. At this point in life I am TOTALLY devastated by what she has done to me. Those of you who say fight for my son, well, I don't have any fight left in me, and this kid has had his mind so poisoned against me, even if I did have the money for the legal fight, it would be an effort in futility. I can only hope that when he gets older, he will realize what the TRUTH really is. Oh yeah, his mother was sexually molesting him. Whole 'nother story. Lawyers? Don't believe it's not justice for those can afford it. She hired the best divorce lawyer in the State of Florida.
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Registered: 06-22-2006
In reply to: mrntprfct
Tue, 06-27-2006 - 3:40pm

You're history is so pained and it is completely understandable you would be devastated by your ex-wife's actions.

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Registered: 06-27-2006
In reply to: mrntprfct
Tue, 06-27-2006 - 5:53pm

my only advise i could give you is try to show her something..look for a job and if you could change your life style. i mean you dont need to lower your self. yes i do believe you for what you mention here about her. so go ahead show her what you got. show her that she totally wrong about you..about your son he will understand that when he get more matured. coz right now you just gonna make him more confused and also if you dont wanna show her anything at all atleast do it for your son show him instead.

god bless you and good luck

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Registered: 04-16-2006
In reply to: mrntprfct
Tue, 06-27-2006 - 5:56pm

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Something seems weird with that...what was the reason he gave you? It doesnt sound like it was because of your ex-wife.

Why are you wasting money on "psychics"? yeah duh, you shouldnt have given everything to your wife...I could have told you that for free. I read your other post, you need money for razors and food..why are you paying for that crap? Not trying to be hard on you but you have to get your priorities straight.

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How old is your son???? why dont you call Social Services???? Call the police??? Make a report to keep on file.

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Rightfully so...you made a threat. I would do the same thing. Its not funny.

As far as your son...he WILL regret it and he will end up hating his mother because of everything she has said to him about you. DONT be like her and tell your son negative things about her...it will only make you look bad.

Like I said I am NOT trying to come down on you, There ARE things you can do and people you can talk to.

What kind of work were you doing when you were fired??? why cant you get work doing that? Okay so you wont be your own boss or own the company but it would be in the field you know well.

Good luck to you!