My boyfriend says he needs time /SPACE

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Registered: 03-25-2005
My boyfriend says he needs time /SPACE
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Fri, 03-25-2005 - 3:34pm

HI everyone- well need some help- My BF of 4 years says he needs time and space... he has gone through some health issues.. and now is better- he says that it was a bad idea to have me move in- and now I am moving out Sat :(.... He has REALLY not given me any indication that we are Still together, or that his space will take so and so long.. He said that he still cares etc... SIGH - not sure what to do right now.....

He said that he will still come visit me at my new place- HOW do i REALLY knwo if it is REALLY over???

Someone help Thanks

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Registered: 03-07-2004
Fri, 03-25-2005 - 6:25pm

"HOW do i REALLY knwo if it is REALLY over???"

By deciding just how masochistic you "really" are. Lets examine the facts. Your BF of 4 years whom you were shacking up with asked you to move out and said he needed space. If that's not a break up, what is it? He's saying he needs time and space--with out you in it. So, are you going to sit around wondering what to do? What you do is see the reality that's just slapped you in the face. What you do is realize that he is far to stupid for you to be with, after all, four years with the guy and he still has doubts whether you're his TheOne!? Oh wait, he doesn't have doubts, he knows you aren't. And he asked you to leave.