My ex!!

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Registered: 06-03-2003
My ex!!
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Wed, 09-08-2004 - 4:49pm
Okay i am freaking out! i dreamed of my ex the other night and and i ran into the very next day! This is weird because i hadn't seen him in like 3 years! I asked how he was and he was like, " i am fine now" . i don't know if that meant he were sick of he were happy to see me. Okay , i am not single. i have been with my boyfriend 3 years. I had butterflies when i saw this guy. He was asking me if i still worked at the same place and i was like yeah. okay i had my work badge on and it said that place i worked at that he asked about. wth! i haven't been able to stop thinking of him since! What does this mean? I love my man a lot so i don't get this. I told my ex goodbye and it was good to see hiim. he was like yeah alright! lol! It's like he wanted to say more but couldn't. I want to know how he feels about me because we never had closure. I want to chat with him but without deceiving my man. Am I wrong?
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Registered: 01-30-2004
In reply to: kenkat25
Fri, 09-10-2004 - 12:53am
That is strange. I do beleive that everything happens for a reason and hopefully soon you'll know the reason for this. Maybe it's to get your closure or maybe you two are meant to be friends.....only time will tell. If you want to talk to him without deceiving your bf.....just tell him you want to talk to him.....but reassure him that you aren't interested in your ex. My bf and I are very open to one another and we both have friends that were ex's at one time and we are very comfortableabout it and know we can trust each other. So talk to your bf...he may not be as against it as you might think. Good luck and let us know how everything goes!
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