My Ex Current girlfriend call me....

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Registered: 05-18-2004
My Ex Current girlfriend call me....
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Thu, 06-02-2005 - 7:19pm
Well I thought that it was over but I guess not.
Tuesday the current girlfriend of my ex called me, she started me asking some questions about how my ex and I broke up and I couldn't keep quiet anymore.
I told her that he cheat on me with her and that he was seing her and sleep with her while he was with me.
Also I told her that we broke up 8 months ago and back again the second day because I found out that he was talking with girls from different countries but the didn't know that he had a girlfriend at that time, insted they were calling him from their countries and he also called them back.
she was shock because it looks like he haven't change.
I didn't want to hurt her feelings by telling her that I sleep two times with him and keep contact with him after we broke up (bigggggggg mistake, I regrest this), I
I hate this guy when I asked him about his feelings for her, he answered me "I DON"T KNOW"
Well he called me back saying that I had my vengeance, I couldn't believe what he said to me, I didn't want to hurt her of him, she called me and she asked me all those questions, I guess she has some doubts about him already.
DId I do something wrong?
I know that by know he is hating me but I don't care, now he will not contact me again...
what everybody think did I do right in telling her how he was with me after a year that I spent with him?
SHe have been with him over three to four months...
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Registered: 01-30-2004
Thu, 06-02-2005 - 10:43pm
Personally, I think she has some nerve calling and you in the first place, regardless of what she wanted.
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Registered: 05-18-2004
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 10:20am
Thank you for some reason I don't know why I felt bad, I guess I didn't expect those hurt words of "go to Hell", I respect him so much and he never told me those kind of words but he was assholl, playing with me and with her too.
I still care about him but I learned my leasson he doesn't care about anybody just himself and playing arond just for fun.
I need to find somebody new who realy loves me cares about me.
it just so painful, I hope it goes away...
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Registered: 03-30-2003
Sat, 06-04-2005 - 8:07am

Chances are, what went round is coming round again: he cheated on you with her, and perhaps now she suspects he is cheating on her, with someone else. Regardless of her reason and rationale in calling you, it was a bit nervy, but if I were in your situation, and had the anger I did toward an ex partner, I probly would have been as honest as to why we broke up as well.

And who cares what your former partner thinks, or had to say, about you telling her what happened? He made a decision to act as he did in the relationship the two of you shared, and all you were doing was telling someone what happened. If he doesn't like to be reminded of his actions, or have others know about it, that is his problem: it happened to you, and you can tell who ever you want.

However, having told her what you did, don't take any more of her calls or emails. What she does with her partner (your ex) is now up to her, and you don't need to get involved.