My ex wanted me to date his friend..HELP
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My ex wanted me to date his friend..HELP
| Tue, 10-23-2007 - 6:55pm |
Hello. My boyfriend & I just broke up a bit recently. The relationship stopped functioning well for the last 5 months. We were together for 2 years.
My question is:

THIS one I have not come across before in "all my years" on the boards. Wow. Wonders will never cease.
Ok, who's brilliant idea was it for you two to find each other dates? And right after the break up? Geniuses. ;-) I can see if the relationship had fizzled out, run its course, you both weren't interested in each other anymore but you still like each other as people, AND there had been some time thrown in there for you two to get over the relationship. Even in amicable divorces, even in "hey this didn't work out but you're still cool" endings, you still need time to regroup and disentangle yourselves from each other's lives.
So, I think that maybe you and the boy-wonder need to sit down and re-discuss this whole plan. Tell him that after thinking about it, you're not comfortable with the whole idea just yet, but you'll tell him when you are. This way, the other guy doesn't take it personally and you don't have to say anything about your friend. Out of all of you, she's the only one who had the right idea ;)
Good luck, chica!
Welcome to the board skunky24,
I totally agree with Sandra....