my ex wants to be friends

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Registered: 09-24-2007
my ex wants to be friends
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Sat, 10-27-2007 - 2:15pm
My ex wants to be friends with me but i dont know what to do we havent talked since we broke up and its been almost two months now. he says he misses me and i really was his best friend and that it sucks not here from me. but im just so confused because he broke up with me and im kind of upset and hurt still. should i just give it time?
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2007
Sat, 10-27-2007 - 4:12pm
If I were you I'd give it more time. Not because you shouldn't be friends but more b/c you're still hurt about the situation and it would be very easy for YOU to fall back into the same comfortable patterns as before with him. And by then you may not feel "broken up" anymore and then you just emphasize your hurt again.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 10-27-2007 - 4:20pm

Hi