My heart has been broken

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-2005
My heart has been broken
3
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 9:22pm
Hi I am a Senior in High School. My boyfriend that iv'e been with for 6 months broke up with me yesterday. I love him with all my heart and I dont think i could be without him. All i do is cry and cry and cry. He told me that he is breaking up with me because he loves me so much and he doesnt want to get more attached to me. I asked him why and he told me that im about to go into college and that im gonna meet others guys and that its better if he leaves me now because its gonna be worst later on. I told him that he has to trust me, that i Love him, but he told me that its the best thing for both. He doesnt want to get too attached with me because of an experience he had before but I love him so muchh, i dont see myself without him. How am i gonna forget about him? I know that we were gonna break up one day but it hurts me sooo much to know that he still cares but that he is scared to get more attached to me and have to suffer even more later one. What do i do!! All i do is think about him. He told me he still wanted to be my friend but i told him i couldnt be his friend because then i would never be able to forget about him but now im thinking that i rather have him at least as friend than not have him at all :( what should i do?
Avatar for marichiko
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 04-14-2005 - 12:54am

Well, what you are going to do is feel sad for a while.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-2005
Thu, 04-14-2005 - 6:13pm
Thank you very much for the advice. It's just that he was the first guy that i really felt love for and it just kills me to think that i will never be with him again. This is so hard.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2004
Thu, 04-14-2005 - 10:14pm
I'm sorry to hear about your break-up...I know it hurts.
Photobucket