My husband having affair...let him go?
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My husband having affair...let him go?
| Thu, 06-01-2006 - 3:29pm |
My husband having affair...let him go?
- forget about him and start a new life
- forgive and forget...wait for him to come back
You will be able to change your vote.

Well, you might want to consider not letting him sleep with you anymore. It sounds like he's being quite cruel. He cheated on you and tells you he doesn't know if he wants you yet he still comes to sleep with you and hugs you. Stand up for yourself! He's taking advantage of you. He's treating you badly and will continue to do so until you stop allowing it.
You can't know if he'll ever come back. But maybe you don't even want him to. Can you trust him after what he did? If he won't go to counseling with you, consider going by yourself. It will help you to talk with someone about what you're going through. You're in a really difficult and painful situation.
I think counseling is important, even if he won't go with you. It could help you to deal with what's happened. Or, you could try visiting Betrayed Spouses Support