My Proud Moment Today with Ex
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My Proud Moment Today with Ex
| Tue, 03-07-2006 - 4:02pm |
So I posted previously (this morning) about the emotionally closed off guy I dated who hurt me badly. Well I had lunch with him today. And I was pleasantly surprised at how Ok I was. All there is left is this sadness for his infinite loneliness; omg, I pity him!
When we were saying goodbye, he asked if I wanted a hug, and I said Hmm no im ok actually. And he said "well maybe I could use a hug." I said "Oh really? Well, I couldve used a hug last week, but thats life. See ya." Then I just walked away.
And thank god I was wearing jeans that made my ass look great. He can brood on that.
See you later, jackass! I am over you!
*pets self on back* ^_^

CONGRATULATIONS! And I'm sure walking away made you feel 100 times better than that hug would have anyway. You were strong enough to do it, and that should make you proud. I had lunch with my "ex" last Wednesday (last time I talked to him) and I was amazed at how much stronger I was. I saw him as very pathetic. I think once you come out of your love-fog and start focusing on them realistically, they no longer look the same to you. I don't know what I saw in him in the first place. A real man knows what he wants, goes for it, and never looks back. A real man wouldn't be wishy-washy about how they feel.
Steph
Absolutely Steph. Thanks for your kind words of support today. It really helped.
And it's good to hear that you feel stronger when you had lunch with your ex. I really pity men who can't appreciate the good women who cross their paths.
What a great line- "Oh really? Well, I couldve used a hug last week, but thats life. See ya."
Did you pre-plan that scenario or was that spur-of-the-moment? Because I think we all dream of that one.
good job.
It was completely impromptu. And god that felt good.
*hops around office gleefully* ^_^
Good for you!!!
Sheri
i read your previous message and i can totally relate, but after reading your second message, which i found myself laughing to... all i can say is im glad you were able to liberate yourself from the breakup. thanks for brightening my day. really thank you. im really happy for you.
Hi Kookiedoll
Thanks for your kind words. Us women have to stick together! I'm happy to be out of the funk so fast because he is so not worth it. This board has been invaluable in giving me (and others like me) support and advice!
-Enkie