Myspace ruined my relationship

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-17-2006
Myspace ruined my relationship
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Wed, 05-17-2006 - 9:23am
Okay so this happened a month ago. My boyfriend and I were together for almost 2 years. Thats a long time for me. Well most of you would never let your loved one meet someone off of myspace or watever, well i did. Because i trusted him. So anyway, that didnt affect me until he started texting her in front of me and acting all weird. But I disregarded it. He would disregard my feelings and such. Next thing you know, he dumps me. And then I find out two weeks later, he is going out with that girl. You have no clue how pissed i was....i wanna be friends with him but he just messed up real bad.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-10-2003
Wed, 05-17-2006 - 1:01pm

I'm a little confused... were you with your boyfriend at the time and he started talking to someone off Myspace? Or did you meet him that way?

Of course you're pissed, feeling like you've been replaced sucks. But don't try and "be friends" with this guy- his disregarded your feelings before as a *girlfriend*, now he doesn't owe you anything (in his mind), so he'll continue walking all over you if you allow it. Cut him off... not worth your emotions.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-17-2003
Wed, 05-17-2006 - 1:25pm

Yes... MySpace is Evil.. I have said that many MANY times on this forum before. I met my on again/off again through MS and we are always having issues with sexually ambiguous comments being left on his page, girls emailing him, etc.

But regardless of MS, he would have found someone to be with cause it seems that he was looking or atleast open to meeting new girls IN HIS MIND, even if you guys didnt discuss an open relationship.

He sucks....dont befriend a man who couldnt even give you the courtesy of basic respect. If he didnt give it to you in a relationship, he isnt going to give it to you as friends.

my 2 cents

m

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-22-2006
Thu, 05-18-2006 - 9:29am

Yes, it's not My Space's fault...people who are looking will find no matter where they are.

Susan

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