NC harder than it looks?
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NC harder than it looks?
| Thu, 03-17-2005 - 7:10pm |
After spending a couple weeks after the breakup immediately afterwards trying to be friendly I decided the other day I should not be so quick to answer messages and emails and all that stuff because it was making me sadder and sadder. I think NC is making me more miserable! Does NC really work or am I just pushing him further away?

It works...but for YOU, not him.
And yes, it gets harder before it gets easier...but since the alternative is basically never being able to move on (if you keep in contact with him), it's worth it.
And no contact means NO contact...limited contact is much less effective and it'll take you a lot longer to get over him, because you basically reopen the wound every time you have contact, rather than allowing it to heal.
Sheri
"Going from glorious to sucky in one quick fell swoop "
LOL you totally understand then. I'm beginning to think email and IM are horribly rotten tools. Evenings and weekends seem to drag on so slowly now. I just can't seem to stay busy enough.
Hang in there ascendent!
"Evenings and weekends seem to drag on so slowly now. I just can't seem to stay busy enough."
Yup, right on the money. Just keep at it and be strong :) thanks for the support *smiles*