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| Fri, 11-26-2004 - 1:19am |
So my boyfriend of five years and I called it quits a few weeks ago, and i instituted the no contact policy.
The holidays are now upon us, and many of our mutual friends are having gatherings and such, and (trying to not be biased) are inviting both of us. Now, my ex is not in favor of the no contact rule (he hasnt contacted me, but has stated to me that he would like to stay friends) , and has RSVP's for many of these events. So my choice is, do i go to the parties, even tho i know he will be there and i will be uncomfortable, or do i choose to not go (as i have done with 2 events so far) and slowly lose touch with all of my/our friends???
Any opinions, please...
Jenn

if you don't want to go where he'll be, then don't.
you can keep in touch with your friends without going to a party and seeing the ex.
remember... there are 11 other months to maintain your friendships - no need to feel like you have to attend these parties just to keep your friends.
your life is your's. do what makes you comfortable.