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Need advice about breaking NC
| Sun, 04-08-2007 - 4:23pm |
Hi Everyone,
I've been on NC for over a month. Now it's Easter...This will be the first Easter in five years that I haven't spent with my ex and her family. I feel this need to give her an Easter basket...for some reason. I don't know if that's such a smart thing...I know she isn't with anyone and her mother and friends tell me she is constantly telling them how much she misses me...I know I'll live without doing this but I hate this not acknowledging her existance thing I've been doing...I think It's definately helped me survive the early breakup, but can it be time to do something that may show a sign of forgiveness, or at least show that I still care ... Thanks.....

<<<....I know I'll live without doing this but I hate this not acknowledging her existance thing I've been doing...I think It's definately helped me survive the early breakup...>>>
Why jeopardize your healing process for an Easter basket and a call? What will be the payoff? Are you expecting anything from her? Getting her back? The NC has the purpose of you ignoring her so you can move on. Think about why you broke up. It's been a month so don't do it. You will live through more NC Easter celebrations.
What does the gesture of an Easter Basket mean to you?