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|Mon, 10-07-2013 - 6:46pm|
Hello, need advice........ I've been married for about 3yrs (my second marriage ). Two kids from 1st marriage. and one from my current. My ex-husband was very irresponsible, didn't work much and dragged me in debt with IRS. They were going to garnish my wages and I was 9mos. Pregnant. etc. Everything was ok with my current husband. I was ready to buy a house. Have some money saved. A few months ago, my current husband confessed that he owed over 10yrs of backed taxes. IRS has garnished some of his wages, every Time he gets paid. Also, he had credit card debt so he was filing bankruptcy. He never told me before we married. He lied to me. I asked him several times before we got married regarding money etc. he said had no problems financially. After he told me , I was furious ! So I quickly filed for divorce. I want nothing to do with IRS. I've worked really hard tot pay everything off from my previous marriage. After my anger settled. I started thinking if. I rushed to file for divorce. Maybe I should honor my vows for better or for worse. And I should work through this problem with him. Now I was just going to do it for legal reasons. We would stay together in a relationship . This guy is 14yrs older than me. Is this wrong , to get a divorce so that legally I have no part of his debt. But we still live together. Or do I need to stick it through. ???? Please advice. I don't know what to do.