need advice please!

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Registered: 12-09-2003
need advice please!
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Fri, 02-18-2005 - 8:32pm
So my ex broke up with me almost three weeks ago saying he needed time to get his life together, but that he loves me and I'm the best thing that's ever happened to him. His friend's father (who's known him for 15 or so years) has insisted to me that he was telling the truth and also that he doesn't think it would be a bad thing if we happen to run into each other. Anyway, not sure if I believe all that or not....Tonight I am going with friends to the local bar and there's a good chance that he will be there. I'm not sure how I should act. I do want him back badly, but I don't think that will really ever happen. We have not spoken since the break up, I called him on his cell a couple times but his voicemail was full and he never returned the calls. I ended up sending him a letter just letting him know that I do love him, etc. and that he knows how to find me if he wants to talk. I'm not sure he will even acknowledge me if we see each other tonight, but if he does, what the hell do I do? I'm so afraid that just the sight of him may make me fall apart, but I don't want to sit home and wallow in my misery either. I definitely will not approach him to talk or anything. Anyone have any suggestions? Sorry if this post makes no sense or if I'm blabbering!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 02-18-2005 - 10:31pm

isis4414...


Pianoguy realizes this response is a bit late, but please accept it for what it's worth, okay?


You did the right thing by sending the letter.