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|Sun, 09-16-2012 - 9:21pm|
I met my first boyfriend about 11 years ago online and I have lived with him for about 5 years now and (as you can imagine) we are at a disconnect in our relationship. Some days I don't want anything to do with him and others I can't imagine not having him there. Most of these feelings I think are coming from him not wanting to contribute to the relationship. I feel like I do everything for both of us. When we lived alone he would never do anything to help me around the apartment and all he would do is sit at his computer and play games. Now we live with my sister in a different state and for the past 3 months he hasn't been worried at all about getting a job. He doesn't even look and has only applied to a few. I can't support him forever and I don't think I should have to. Not only does he not do anything for himself, but I think we don't have anything in common. He is a total geek and loves to play games whereas I pretty much hate games and would rather watch a movie. He constantly is making me feel like there is something wrong with me because he says I don't have any hobbies. It infuriates me! Just because I don't do what he likes doesn't mean there is something wrong with me. AND when we do something together he gets so angry so fast that he ruins the experience for me! The last time we went to IKEA he threw a fit and started practically running through the place because he was mad it was so packed with people! Now when I think about leaving him it makes me feel guilty because he has no job and just about nowhere to go. I can't just kick him out...I just don't know what to do. I'm at a loss. Sorry for the rambling and I'm sorry for any confusion I just needed to vent. Advice please and thank you so much!