Need advise on getting over at work..

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Registered: 06-18-2006
Need advise on getting over at work..
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Tue, 06-20-2006 - 8:22am

Ok - I posted in another board over the weekend. But I think I am more in this category. Basically, have a huge crush on a guy I work with and he is not in the same office. But constantly need to call and email due to work. We worked together for more than a year and shared many laughs and still do. In the last 4 months, I have developed this sort of major crush where I wanted to go further. But after many hints from my side, I have not gotten too much response in a "romantic" way.

We still are in touch as we need to work together and I dont think he is interested. But I am finding it hard to deal with this as strange it may seem, I have never felt this way for a long long time. So..in a nutshell..how do I get off feeling this way..In the weekend I decided to contact him on just needed basis. That lasted for maybe half the day. Soon I had to email work related stuff and soon we were in a 1:1 email..though nothing personal (some chatty, some funny, some work) but you get what I am saying. I was enjoying the fun exchanges with him. But ok..to cut to the chase, I really dont think he is interested as I have dropped enough hints. I need to get over this. I can't stop thinking about anything else at home or anyone else. What do I do and how do I deal with the situation at work? Sometimes I think why this happened. I was fine..why did I have to start feeling this way..it has like taken over my life.

Any thoughts or advice appreciated.

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Registered: 06-16-2006
Tue, 06-20-2006 - 1:50pm

hi spring_swing2005

i have a good idea..email ryan seacrest on 102.7 kiss fm. about this coz they have this program "dial a date". ryan seacrest will help you. i dont know if you listen to him every morning????

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Registered: 01-12-2005
Tue, 06-20-2006 - 5:54pm

Ok, to cut to the chase, I believe you have a couple of options, I'm sure other people can think of more:


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Registered: 06-18-2006
Tue, 06-20-2006 - 8:50pm
Sandra,
Thanks so much. Your advise is right to the point. I'd have asked him for coffee..but he is 4 hours away..another reason to cut off a potential LDR. Though i am always thinking ..what ifs..I mean finally you find somebody interesting..and who thinks the way you think and makes you laugh and shares the same joke. So I will try the second option and if nothing..just move on with life. Thanks again.