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| Mon, 08-09-2004 - 6:25pm |
What would make a girl that after one year of living with a guy, a great relationship, but she has decided that it is over for good, what would make her still tell him she loves him, misses him, that he is her baby doll forever, will meet him at the airport when he gets back home to help him get to their apartment, is still living in the apartment but broke up 3 weeks ago, and uses answers like "I dont know" "not sure" etc when he asks her things like will you stay at the apt with me the night i get home, things like that? Is she really sure it is over for sure or what? If it is truly finished in her eyes, would she still say the things that she is saying?
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| Mon, 08-09-2004 - 7:34pm |
It sounds like what would make a girl say and do those things is complete confusion as well as selfishness. Despite the reason she broke up with you she obviously still has feelings for you which is natural. I am a woman and i have never done this to a guy, but I know that when a guy does those things he is usually trying to keep the girl around in case he changes his mind, or to keep her from moving on becuase he cant stand the thought (selfish). Its like she is telling you what you want to hear so that she can keep you thinking that there is a chance. I mean as long as she is saying these things are you able to move on? I bet not. There is obviosly some underlying issue here as to why you two broke up. I mean if she can say straight out to you that it is over for good then she should get out of your apartment (if its yours) and/or leave you alone. I dont know the whole situation and this is the best I can do but if i were you I would employ the No Contact rule. She seems confused and unsure about something and it is not fair to you to be on an emotional rollercoaster. If she can honeslty say it is over for good then your best bet is to start healing now. Sounds like she might be stringing you along or she is having some other issues that she needs to resolve on her own. Just my 2 cents. Hope its somewhat helpful. Good Luck.
