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Need help getting over
| Fri, 05-18-2007 - 3:59pm |
It has been four months since my ex broke up with me. We were friends for one year while I was still married. Then when I got divorce we started to date and dated for a year and lived together. It was the best year of my life. We seemed to be on the same page. He brought home a puppy for us to have together. Then one day he seemed sad, within a week he was breaking up with me.
I thought my life was over. Nothing hurt more then him leaving. I knew it would take time to get over him, but it has been four months and I still feel like my heart is split in two. The biggest issue is we work together. I would love to just pick up and move so I would have to see him again. Then he had the nerve to try and sleep with me, friends with benifits. And my dumb ass fell for it for a little.
Now we are just trying to be civil, but yesterday my emotions got to me. He came be to pick up something. I told him that it was to hard to see him and talk to him and that I needed space. He sad he was sorry, and that I was a wonderful person, beautiful, smart, and that he stilled cared a lot about me and loved me. But of course he can't be with me right now.
How do I get him out of my head. How do I stop feeling so bad and stop crying over him.
I thought my life was over. Nothing hurt more then him leaving. I knew it would take time to get over him, but it has been four months and I still feel like my heart is split in two. The biggest issue is we work together. I would love to just pick up and move so I would have to see him again. Then he had the nerve to try and sleep with me, friends with benifits. And my dumb ass fell for it for a little.
Now we are just trying to be civil, but yesterday my emotions got to me. He came be to pick up something. I told him that it was to hard to see him and talk to him and that I needed space. He sad he was sorry, and that I was a wonderful person, beautiful, smart, and that he stilled cared a lot about me and loved me. But of course he can't be with me right now.
How do I get him out of my head. How do I stop feeling so bad and stop crying over him.

Welcome to the board roxy82heart,
Break-ups aren't easy. You have to take time to grief for what might have been, for what could have been, for what you hoped would have been.