In need of moral support

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-15-2004
In need of moral support
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Mon, 11-15-2004 - 7:15pm
Recently my boyfriend of four years and I broke up. And I'll be honest, we were one of those couples who breaks up all the time and were back together within a day or two, but this time I believe it is for real. I've been feeling like we are having huge problems, but he refuses to compromise or go to counceling. I just feel like it is time to move on, but it's breaking my heart, and I am doing everything possible to keep from calling him. I miss him so much and this is so hard. He was my boyfriend and my best friend, we've been through so much together, for the past few years he has basically been my whole life, I'm used to spending every day with him. I feel like I didn't really feel like I needed to keep up my old relationships with friends, and now it's like I have no one. I want so bad to be strong about this, but I don't know if I can because it just feels too weird being without him. I need some moral support, because I don't really have anyone now.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2004
Mon, 11-15-2004 - 8:52pm
Welcome to the board!! You've come to the right place to get moral support and I hope you get all the help here, that you're seeking. This is exactly why you should never ditch friends for a guy....but I'm sure you realize now!! It sounds like you feel there are problems and he really doesn't...which can be a big problem in itself. I was in an on and off relationship for 333 1/2 years....and I was miserable.....all that fighting and breaking up really got to me and when I finally ended it for good.......it felt great!! I don't think you should back down and no contact is a great idea. Just try and stay busy....read, hang out with your friends and family, take up a new hobby anything to keep you busy.....and the less time you'll have to focus on mourning your relationship. Good luck and keep us posted and remember we're always here if you need us!!











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