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| Sat, 12-16-2006 - 11:04pm |
Hey ladies,
Long story short. My first bf is in the Navy and he got shipped to Spain back in Oct 2004. He has been over there ever since. The two of us were kind of on again, off again mainly because of him not being honest with me and breaking communication with me. I thought things were going good between us until he told me that he was married on Nov 8. He had been married since June, but continued to talk to me and want me to call him and email him. He wanted me to send him letters and send him pictures too.
Ok, now that you have the background info, I need you girls' help. It has been a month and a half, but I still can't bring myself to delete his emails. How can I do that? Everytime I try, it just hurts too much, and I chicken out everytime. Any advice or thoughts that you girls have is GREATLY appreciated.
Shelly/21/TX


If you don't trust yourself call a friend to come over and do it for you. Delete his emails, address and his phone number from your cell. The only problem with this is that you did not actually get to do the deleting which can be very empowering.
Good luck,
YG
YG
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So you want to hold on to the hurt and pain from a guy that lied to you, is married, and wanted to still carry on with you (as in CHEATING)?
I agree deleting them will make you feel more empowered in the long run. You still have to deal with the grief.
Unless you are holding on to them in hopes that he will contact you again and tell you everything was a joke, he's really not married, but really wants to be with you? I know you know that isn't going to happen.
He doesn't deserve you.
Carrie