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| Sun, 01-07-2007 - 10:28am |
Ladies after being away for a weekend I am going back home and since we still share an apartment together (not that he's been there in a week since we broke up) I'm feeling real apprehensive about going back today. I'm real nervous b/c I know he's been out doing whatever he wanted and having a great time doing it. All I can think of is that he's hooked up or found someone he'd rather be with than me. In addition I don't know how he can just not think of me or want to call me like I do him...However in my defense, I haven't called him. He called me Wed mid day but I didn't call him back and he called me 2xFri when I was on 7 hr road trip to my parents house. I didn't call back then either b/c I know he didn't call to actually talk to me, he called to make sure I had the dog with me and probably to see when I thought I'd be home Sun (so he can make sure he's not there)That breaks my heart. I'm not sure how to not talk to him all the time and not think about him as we have for the past 7 yrs. Thank god we weren't married but I almost feel like we were and it hurts me.
But what I'm really here for today is to get all your ideas on how to meet new people. I'm 34 yrs old and am not exactly a social butterfly unless I'm at work. I don't really have any g/f that I can do things with (they're all married, have kids, are in relationships and just want to be with that person)and I need to start doing things for myself. I haven't done that in a real long time and am out of practice.
I do plan to join a gym b/c that will help me mentally and physically and I know I can get my friends to go to dinner and stuff but where am I going to meet "other people".
I can't be a hermit and let him get the best of me.... I have to get out in the world and become INDEPENDENT ME!!!!!!
Any help you can offer will be greatly appreciated.
| Sun, 01-07-2007 - 11:30am |
