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need some encourgagement
| Mon, 09-26-2005 - 10:10am |
BF and I broke up 2 weeks ago for the third time in a year. We were together for 6 years. The past two times I was devestated. This time for some reason I feel ok. I have not cryed nor felt like it. He has pretty much left me alone knowing that I want no contact this time. My issue is he is comming over tonight to give me money that he owes me. I have really done good lately and dont want to be set back after seeing him tonight. I would appreciate any advise on how to handle this situation.

Can you have someone be at your house so to defuse any potential chat/reconcilation? This is so draining, I know..my ex and I talked about splitting all the time..finally we did it and STILL, back and forth..ugh...
Do not meet him alone..if you cannot have a friend, have him leave the check in your mail box and if it's cash, meet him at a coffee shop..
I agree with the other poster, you should try to, at the very least, have another person around when he stops by.