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| Tue, 01-08-2008 - 8:02pm |
it has been few days now that i broke up with my bf of 2 and half yrs.it has been so hard that sometimes i really feel that my heart will stop beating.i do miss him so very much.i was the one to decide to break up after i had a serious talk with my bf about the future of our relationship and he had made it clear tht he doesn t c us together.during the 2 yr realtionship we broke up many times cus i knew deep inside that i was falling so madly in love with him and i was just like any other girl he ever dated my presence or my abscence didn t make a difference to my bf at ll.at times he seemed very in love with he would do any thing for me and he will do anything to please me and he becomes very romantic and other times he will stop calling and he will become very cold and not caring at all.
i broke up with him now but still wondering why did he treat me that way???why was he caring and loving that i felt that we were one person and the next day he is a different guy.for the last couple days that we ve been apart he is been trying to get back together but i m so afraid will go through the same thing again cus i know and made it clear that he doesn t have any intention to go far

Hi M...
I think sometimes the break ups that are the hardest are the ones that don't make sense.
Welcome to the board marwalovesalways,
::i broke up with him now but still wondering why did he treat me that way???why was he caring and loving that i felt that we were one person and the next day he is a different guy.
What you feel is normal. When we go through a break-up we try to find a 'rational' reason for the break up. An answer, a reason, the problem is, no matter what the answer, it's usually one we will disagree with or argue with.