In Need of Support or Advice.....
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In Need of Support or Advice.....
| Tue, 09-21-2004 - 11:13pm |
My boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago and even though I know its going to take awhile to get over, the days just seem so long and everyday I tell myself Im not going to talk to him but it still somehow happens.
Whenever he broke up with me, he gave me the reason that he wasnt giving enough into the relationship like I was, but then when he would tell others why it always changed like he didnt have time for me or i tried laying guilt trips on him...
And when I talked to him a few days later I was bawling my eyes out and it didnt even seem like he cared! I dont understand how someone can go from loving you at one point in the day to apparently not loving you at all. The way he spoke on the phone was a way I had never heard before, he was always so supportive and always tried to cheer me up but this time it hurt, especially when he made it final that it was over for good.
I know he was crazy about me throughout our relationship, he told me all the time, I dont think he knows what he wants now. Even though, I know i cant hold on to any false hopes. I miss talking to him everyday but Im starting to realize if hes acting like this now, maybe this is how he really is and I dont like it. I just dont understand how guys can move on so fast? Is it some manly thing they are trying to prove or are they really hurting deep down inside?? I know this story was long and jumped around alot but I guess Im just asking for any advice for moving on or for any support because I need it more then anything now.
Thanks!!!
Whenever he broke up with me, he gave me the reason that he wasnt giving enough into the relationship like I was, but then when he would tell others why it always changed like he didnt have time for me or i tried laying guilt trips on him...
And when I talked to him a few days later I was bawling my eyes out and it didnt even seem like he cared! I dont understand how someone can go from loving you at one point in the day to apparently not loving you at all. The way he spoke on the phone was a way I had never heard before, he was always so supportive and always tried to cheer me up but this time it hurt, especially when he made it final that it was over for good.
I know he was crazy about me throughout our relationship, he told me all the time, I dont think he knows what he wants now. Even though, I know i cant hold on to any false hopes. I miss talking to him everyday but Im starting to realize if hes acting like this now, maybe this is how he really is and I dont like it. I just dont understand how guys can move on so fast? Is it some manly thing they are trying to prove or are they really hurting deep down inside?? I know this story was long and jumped around alot but I guess Im just asking for any advice for moving on or for any support because I need it more then anything now.
Thanks!!!

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