The nerve of the guy...
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| Thu, 08-12-2004 - 5:17pm |
He called me after a few emails back and forth, b/c he was confusing me and I wasn't sure what he was getting at.
So he calls and asks how I'm doing with the break up and thinks that maybe I've changed my mind and would now like to start casually dating him. WTF? I told him that I want a relationship. I told him I thought he was crazy. He didn't see it as me taking a step backward, he couldn't really understand how he was being offensive. Does he not know me? Has he not listened to me when I told him not to contact me unless he wanted to get back together, to have a relationship. I guess he took it as I want to be back in bed w/ her, let me call her. JERK!!!!!
I also found out that he is sleeping w/ the massage therapist that we both used to go to. I'm not surprised by that, and I'm not really mad about that. I'm mad that he thinks I would take scraps, leftovers from him? When he asked if I was dating someone else I said yes, I'm not;). He said that made him sad b/c I'm not just his anymore! The nerve!
Where does he get off? He wants me as "f&ck buddy." He hasn't really been a jerk until now. I told him that I learned a lot about him today. He said, "Sorry to disappoint you." Well I am glad I found this out. It makes it a whole heck of a lot easier to move on. It's been 3 mos, and lately I've been feeling great. I hope this doesn't set me back. Right now I am too mad to be set back. Well I gotta hand it to the guy, at least he's being honest. He also told me he still loved and missed, yadda, yadda, yadda. I'm done!
If you're interested here is the email trail...
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HIM: Hello. Can I ask you something?
ME: Hi...what's going on?
HIM: Maybe I shouldn't be talking to you. I wanted to talk about us, but I don't
want to open old wounds if you are successful moving on. I can wait a few more months, and then contact you again if you like.
ME: What about us?
HIM: Where you were at with us. I want to ask you something,but I think it will
hurt you. I have asked before, but I wanted to see if anything had changed over time.
ME: What are you talking about? Are you talking about sex? What do you mean where I am with us? Please come straight out with what you want. You are confusing me.
HIM: I want to date you.
ME: What?! You do realize that you have emailed ME. Date me? What does that mean? And when have you asked before? HUH? I'm still confused.
HIM: Can I call you right now?

He is a JERK.
Well I'm officially at the anger stage. I really don't want anything to do with him. What an A$$.
great big high five!!
C
I am going trough the same sort of thing... it sounds like your ex wants to have sex with you! I am on the wrong track myself again after 3 weeks no contact I send him 2 emails and got a: hey, ohyes, you still excist as well and I am doing great back with
my ex g/f-respond. I am very angry with him also, and send him a very nast mail, which he responded to : why are you so angry! He is soooo selfish that he doesnt even realise what the problem is, what as bastard/jerk! And now I send him another angry nast one and I hope its over now or something, I know this is not good to do and I dont want to be so low myself to do this crap....he isnt worth it, he certainly isnt worhty of my friendship
And after all of this, I still find it so hard....
You know what I mean dont you?!
I am so nervous ....what to do??
Samantha
Why is he coming over? Did you invite him? You're only going to feel worse if you see him. Don't do it! What are you going to get out of it? He probably has not changed. Be mad at him for doing this to you. Be strong.
Oh, i know its dangerzone now... I prayed to God already and he will be with me and help out for the best
thanks for reading and responding fromlb
Samie
Very funny! I laughed outloud at that one.
Do you know what he wants to talk about? Be strong Samie! Good luck!