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Registered: 04-18-2006
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Tue, 04-18-2006 - 7:35pm

hello everyone,

my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me one week ago today. he said he isnt "in love" with me anymore. im very sad/confused/upset. i talked to him yesterday, but i have now promised myself to not contact him anymore. it will do me no good contacting him. i just hope i find some new friends here who can help me cope with this horrible time right now.

lizzy

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Registered: 10-31-2003
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 9:07am

Hi lonely_lizzy, welcome to the Love & Sex channel at iVillage.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 10:09am

lonely_lizzy...

This is a rerun for some ivillagers...but PG knows that the most difficult thing about a lengthy relationship is going through an unexpected breakup!

IT'S HORRIBLE...BUT IT HAPPENS!

Keep any and all communication brief....but if you can keep your distance, you'll be better off! Don't fall into the "let's be buddies" trap!

You need to give yourself time (and a lotta space) to get over this.

Pianoguy