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| Mon, 12-20-2004 - 7:16pm |
Well, as the title states, I am new here and I am in desperate need of some advice.
My situation is a strange one you see. About 9 months ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of two years. I was really depressed at the time and felt like I needed some time to sort a few things out. We stayed in touch for the first month or so but then his pain turned to anger and he started to hate me and closed off all communication. So, needless to say, i didn't talk to him again until about a month ago.
Well, we became fast friends again after he decided not to hate me anymore. I accepted his apology for the way he treated me over the past few months. He explained to me that the reason he acted the way he did was because he couldn't deal with the pain so he turned it into anger.
Here's the deal - i've found myself in love with him again and i don't know what to do about it. There's another catch - he's moving about 3 1/2 hours away from me. I'm trying to stop loving him and in my mind i know what that this isn't practical but my heart just won't let me quit! I am so confused and I think the reason is that I have never felt this way about anyone before. PLEASE HELP!!!
Any advice, comments or scoldings would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks:)
| Tue, 12-21-2004 - 10:54pm |
