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New here and Plesase Help!!!!
| Wed, 11-17-2004 - 3:37am |
I was with this guy for 4 1/2 years....very passionate relationship. I left him. For 2 years I couldn't date - no desire for it. I pined for my old bf back. I cried almoost everyday over him. Out of the blue 2 months ago he called. We tried it again. Nothing but screaming and fighting. So, last week we called it off (again). Gosh how I still love him. The 2 year seperation didn't help. And the fact that for 2 months we tried again only made matters worse for me.
Help!!!! I can't even get away from him in my sleep! I dream of him....long for him. I know its truely over though. I don't think that there's any hope for us. How do I get over him? How do I stop dreaming of him? My candle still burns for him. HELP!!!!!
StormyMoon

my boyfriend of 4 years has just broken up with me. We were together for 2 years then he finished with me, when i was 8 months pregnant with his child. He went back to his home country of portugal and i cried everyday. I finally started to move on and then after 6months apart he came back. I agreed to give it another go and we were togrther for another year and a half until he finished with me about 3 months ago. I was heart broken. still am really. i miss him and think about him all the time.
Now for the good news! Even though i do still think about him, it doesn't hurt all the time. I very rarely cry over him and it really is getting easier with every week that goes by. I can't even think about being with another guy. But i go out with my friends and just have a laugh. The first weeks are awful but it really does get better. I know what you mean about splitting up for the second time being worse than the first. maybe because it makes it so final and because its so hard to believe that you can love someone so much and yet you just can't seem to make it work.
good luck and i hope things get easier for you soon.
Thanks everyone......gosh it hurts soooooo bad. My heart pounds, I feel sick all the time, disorentated, confused, lonely, scared, and shakey. I feel literal pain in my heart. No joke - my heart really hurts - I can feel the chest pains. I shake and cry all the time. Seeing my shrink over this too. How weird is that?
Thanks for being here for me
StormyMoon