New Here :( Having TOUGH time

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Registered: 04-30-2003
New Here :( Having TOUGH time
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Tue, 10-31-2006 - 2:26am



Hello...My name is Alicia. I have a long long story, but I will make it as short as possible. My best friend broke it off with me last December...less then two weeks later we found out that we were having a baby. We had been "friends" for 7 years before deciding to date exclusivly...he however wasnt ready to only be with one women. I have been in love with this man for years and was so happy to be with him. Just had my son on September 6th. Chris has been a great father and friend to me. Still he doesent want to settle down....it hurts so so bad...I just want to be a family with our son and my daughter and his daughter. Why does he have to tell me that he loves me and he wishes things were different and that he "just isnt ready".

Alicia 


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Registered: 08-04-2003
Tue, 10-31-2006 - 11:36am

It's sad when we love someone and they 'aren't ready' for the same level of relationship that we are. It will be hard to get over him since you see him so often.

You will have to grieve for what might have been, for what could have been and for what you hoped would have been. Sorry you have to go through this.


Carrie