A New Letter

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Registered: 03-04-2007
A New Letter
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Wed, 05-02-2007 - 5:23pm

Hi Everyone,

I've been on NC for two months and I just received a call from my Ex's mother who would like me to accept a letter from my Ex. I've been under a lot of stress with everything, not just the breakup. I have no idea what she wants to say. The last time she wrote a letter it was all about her...I think she knows how I feel about being "friends", Do you think this letter might screw me up?

EDS

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: cfrenzy
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 5:27pm

Hi cfrenzy,


Well she wants you to accept a letter from your ex, but that doesn't mean you have to read it. :0)




iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2007
In reply to: cfrenzy
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 7:26pm

Hi,

I received a letter today from my Ex,. but I haven't opened it...chances are I won't. I told her mother that she could send it, but now that I have it...I've changed my mind. I've been on NC for two months and I hadn't planned on talking to her or becomming friends. It's hard to envision becoming a part of her life again. So much has happened, things that seem to be irreparable. And I don't trust her or her intentions anymore. I am planning to give the letter back to her. It is sad and pointless.

EDS

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: cfrenzy
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 10:01pm
Oh, I'm not sure I'd give it back....why get her or her mom, wondering, involved, etc.