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| Fri, 05-11-2007 - 2:43pm |
Hi, I'm Shannon and I live in North Alabama. I have been divorced for 2 and a half years, I have an 18 year old son and a beautiful grandson. While my husband (at the time) and I were going through our problems (he cheated on me with his secretary) our son told us his girlfriend was pregnant. My ex didn't take this well. Fast forward two years and my son and his son live with me in the house I purchased. The problem is I met a man soon after my divorce and fell in love. He asked me to marry him a hear later, I said yes. The problem is I have called the wedding off twice, I don't have a good feeling about it. I love him but can't live with him. We both have issues. He lives an hour away and works two jobs, has a 6 year old son who doesn't mind him well, he has an ex that he seems to do everything she asks. There are too many obstacles in the way of this relationship. I don't want to move there or drive an hour to get to my job. I have a house and he does too. He doesn't want to sell his nor do I. And since I've called the wedding off twice and put the breaks on so much I'm thinking of just walking away and never seeing him again. It's just too hard on me.
Shannon

Hi Shannon and welcome to the board. I'm sorry you find yourself at this crossroads.
Can I ask you one thing: Why did you say yes to this man's marriage proposal?