Newly breaking up with
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Newly breaking up with
| Tue, 12-27-2005 - 5:53pm |
Finally my bf breaking up with me. It's my first time get dumped. We had dated one and half year. We broke up one day four months ago, and we agreed to give another try. Right before Xmas, he called it off out of blue. I'm shock, sad, and angry. He refused to talk to me, all he said is "we don't work". I know we are different, different personality, different dreams, different life view, world view, but we love each other dearly. We had great time together, also we fought alot as well. We could easily drive each other mad, then we could have great time together again. He said he doesn't think relationship work this way. I don't think he is my perfect match, but I still don't want to lose him.
However, I think this time I have to let it go, I need some advice how to deal with this breaking up. I had hard time to eat and sleep and cry all the time. I hope this is normal, if not, I will seek some consultation.
However, I think this time I have to let it go, I need some advice how to deal with this breaking up. I had hard time to eat and sleep and cry all the time. I hope this is normal, if not, I will seek some consultation.

And you also got another point: breaking up is for something broke. If he is my soulmate, I would never be here today. I know what the problem is, I know we had hard time to work thing out. There is no benefit to hang on the broke relationship. But sometimes, I really think the pain is overwhelming: I woke up middle of night felt hard to breath and my heart can feel the pain, first time I realize the emotional pain can cause the physical pain.
Anyway, thanks for your support!