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From No Contact to Some Contact?
| Sun, 10-31-2004 - 6:37am |
For any of you who did start talking to your exes again, when did you decide to put him back into yur life in any way?
Some of you have seen my questions about my current ex, and I am just wondering if you found it easier when you no longer really cared about the guy (started from square 1) or when you started getting curious about him again.
Thanks for your help.

Other exes that I've been able to be friends with I was the one who left. So that makes it easier. I don't know I think if he left you you need some time to get over it. I think at least a year, no matter how long the relationship was. And for some people no period of time is long enough. I've had a couple of relationships in the last ten years where I know I just will never be friends with the guys because I loved them too much and I will always want more than friendship from them.
So the answer is "It depends."
This guy broke up with me, and I'm not thrilled with the way he did it. The thing is we had been friends before so I hope to wake up one morning and say "You know I'd really like to know how he is doing," but I also know that it can't be rushed.
A year for a relationship no matter how long, eh? Wow. :) I'm hoping in a matter of months I won't care about him at all.
But the ex i just broke up with lord have mercy on me i dont ever want to see him again and we live in a small town but i will turn the other way when i see him....lol