Not Sure

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Registered: 10-10-2005
Not Sure
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Wed, 11-01-2006 - 8:22pm

Hello again,

I recently posted about breaking up with my boyfriend. I had a talk with him and told him that I was unhappy with our situation but that I was willing to give it one last shot to try and fix things. He told me that things in his life right now are hard and that he's very sorry he hasn't been able to keep me happy. He also said that he needs to focus on his personal problems first before he can try to fix things with us but when he did figure things out with everything else he'd call me. I kind of left it at that. He made it clear that he wants to be together but I'm still confused because our talk didn't fix our problems. I don't know what he wants from me right now. I'm really not sure what to do. I'm unhappy but I feel guilty trying to breakup with him at such a difficult time in his life. Do you think I should wait it out until he can focus on us or end it with him now? Does he even still want to be with me? Please help!!

Thanks, Alana

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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: alana_thompson
Wed, 11-01-2006 - 9:20pm
If you believe in destiny, leave him alone for now. If you were still single by the time he is ready to be in a relationship, he will come looking for you especially if you guys are in late 20 's or older. Kuz the older we get the harder it gets to find someone we like so we start digging in the old relatinoships. Now you say you have also problems. how serious are they? pretty serious I guess kuz they made you think of breaking up. If these problems are related to his personal issues then maybe once he is over his issues, you 2 have a chance together. If they are not related and you think they are important, I would recommend that once you get over him never to consider him again. Why try again with someone you know soemthing in him bothered you. Why not start a new page with someone you might get along with perfectly.
good luck